M.L.
You are very busy indeed. I have 2 kids and 2 dogs and struggle with the same thing. I used to work full time, and when I did, I had a cleaning lady come once a month and clean the whole house, including sweeping/mopping the garage. Also, we had our yard done front and back every week. It was NICE!! Since I stay at home now, our income has been cut in half, so I have been struggling to put myself on a "schedule" so I can have some sense of order in my house. It seems to be working so far, but the yard doesn't always get mowed everyweek, like I would like. If you and your husband can afford it, HIRE the HELP. It will make your life a little more enjoyable and stress free, and have more time for the kids. I would hire people that you can find via word of mouth or that are recommended. Especially cleaners that will be inside your home and seeing all your personal stuff. You don't want anyone riping you off! Price is going to depend on the size of your home and what you are having done. I never had anyone do my laundry. I do that myself and have to do one load EVERYDAY to keep it controllable, and it really makes a difference if I don't let it pile up. Good Luck!