M.T.
Dear T. ,
The only advice I can offer you is , don't wait for your significant other to change . The only person we can change , and that can change things around is us. It takes a tremendous amount of strenght , but it is within you . There are counselors at women's shelters that you may wish to contact and talk with before you make any solid decision about your next move . There they have women that have been in your situation and that have found the strenght to break loose. Build a positve emotional network for yourself .They also have attorneys I believe at low cost or no cost that can help you pin the father down and make him pay. Ultimately you need a positive boost , find a church that offers counseling and emotional support in your situation. Advice is easy togive when one does not walk the walk if you know what I mean . You are already taking a big step to reach out by posting your situation and seeking help. Stay positive and stay strong , there is a Heroe withing you .