Help.

Sometimes it just takes a little time. I just had my first baby in February and it took us 2 years to get pregnant. It can be really frustrating, so sometimes you just have to take a step back and relax about it for a bit.

Hey there,

I got pregnant after taking progesterone creams after just a couple of week. Many women are estrogen dominant since our meat is injected with hormones and the products we use everyday such as make-up, hair products contain chemicals that act like estrogen in our bodies.

One note: You have to be careful to read ingredients in the progesterone creams. I bought Arbonne's prolief cream and noticed it contains Parabans which are horrible for us and again act like estrogen in our bodies. Just make sure you do not see the word paraban on the ingredient label.

I used Bliss Cream. Here is the website for that:

http://www.optimalnaturalhealth.com/fe/index.php

Good luck!

I'm going to ditto Kay's book suggestion...Taking Charge Of Your Fertility which there is also a website for. There are a so many wonderful, supportive women on the message boards at www.ovusoft.com. who have been through infertility and could help answer your questions.

Hi M.,
I have three pieces of advice:
1)All life is a gift from God. If you haven't done so already, ask Him!
2) Several of the young women in our church and have used the book, "Taking Charge of your Fertility" by Toni Weschler -- with great results, both in getting pregnant and avoiding pregnancy.
3) There is a natural supplement that make healthy cells and enhances the communication between cells. Since that's how pregnancy happens, many women with infertility problems have found success with glyconutrients. Email me if you are interested and I'll be happy to get some info to you.

If none of the above are successful, thank God for the two you have and enjoy them! If you still hanker for a baby, there are plenty of little ones who need a home and not enough foster homes to go around.
S. B.

It took us a year to get pregnant with our son and we were just doing things at the wrong time. My doctor gave me all sorts of tips, one being getting a ovulation kit at the drug store. There will be instructions in the box to tell you what to do. After we used the kit two months later, we were expecting. Other tips, after intercourse, stay on your back, put a pillow under your bottom...thus helping gravity flow. Oh, one other, wait 30 minutes before going to pee pee. I did all these and they were all very effective.

Here my little story of my blessing who is now 24. We had be marrage for eight years and we could not get my PG. We had even try the temp thing and had other test done. I was so tried of getting my hopes up each month only to had my period again that month. If fact time time the Dr was suprise when two test come up not PG. He finally decide I need a DC because he was sure I had been pregnant but the baby had died and my body do not lose it. I am glad to say there was no baby ever. One day I pray to God and told him I want his will in the matter if he want to give us a bay fine if not take away the desire for one. a couple of months later my hubby get up one night chocking and decide to stop smoking. Which he did. A few months later I went to the Dr for a pep test and the Dr told me he thinks I two months pregnant, I had no idea but when he did the test it come up the way I had pray for.One week before our 9th wedding an. I pray God answer your prayers like he did for us.

My fiance's advice is to stop worrying about it. I swear everyone he's told that to has wound up pregnant within two months. Now he thinks he's some kind of shaman. But it's kinda true, if you know everything healthwise is fine, stress itself can affect your chances. My advice would be to break out the blanket & wine, roll around under the stars like a couple of primates, and disregard the "clock" for awhile. Get together whenever you can, really enjoy yourself and your partner, and have some young-lovin kinda fun. :}

M., dont try so hard. If you and your hubby are stressed about not being able to get preggers its only adding to the problem. Im no minister or preacher but my mom always told me its in God time not ours. It will happen just take your time and dont stress your self over it. RELAX!!!!!
I have 4 kids, I was stressed when I wanted my 4th. When I relaxed it happened!!! Ill send up from good vibes for ya that it happens for ya!!!
L. :)

If you have already been tested for possible reasons that would make conception difficult (hormonal imbalances, thyroid issues, PCOS), then you might try an ovulation predictor kit (they can be bought over the counter now)or the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". If those things don't prove successful, then you may have to see a specialist to rule out any other issues. Prayers that you'll be holding a new baby soon!

My name is K. S and I own a business in which I have learned so many things about women and their bodies. I am not a doctor but I feel like you are lacking progesterone. The business that I own we have a natural progesterone that has helped several women get pregnant. If you want to know more you can check out my website at successfromtheheart.myarbonne.com or give me a call ###-###-####.

I have PCOS and was told that I would never get preggers on my own. Well the hubby and I couldnt afford any procedures so we were devastated. 3 years later I unexpectantly found out I was preggers. I had a beautiful healthy babygirl. Two years later we wanted another so we tried for two years and finally we gave up. I threw out the charts and thermometer. Almost right away we were preggers with our Babyboy. The moral of this story is GIVE UP! Just relax, take a vacation or something. If I can do it with PCOS and nonexistent periods you can. Good luck and Im sending baby vibes your way.

M., Pray and ask God if it be his will for you to have more children that he reveal this to you and bless you with such a precious gift turn it over to him and if it be his will it will happen , but do not get discouraged if it does not happen that only means God has bigger plans for your life Good Luck and may God Bless You

Be encouraged, dear. God may not show up when you want Him to, but when He shows up, you WILL want Him! :) Every good and perfect gift (your little treasure of love) comes from above, from God. And I realize that this may not be the "instructional book" on "How To Have a Baby", but I promise you this one thing: if you have another one, it's going to come from the SAME source as the other two: GOD! And that even includes if you should ever decide to adopt. Be blessed!!

There are soooooooo many reasons why it could be taking so long. I would need background information to be able to help you out. I am not a nurse/doctor but I am a women's health advocate and studying natural medicine (Clayton College of Natural Medicine). I specialize in infertility. You can message me if you want more information.

Hi M.,

I work for a chiropractor who is also an acupuncturist. We have done both for women having fertility issues with success. It's all natural and you would want to make sure they are licensed in both. I wish you good luck in your endeavors.
Y.

JUST STOP TRYING! your body needs to relax a stressed body cant handle the stress of pregnacy. so make love to make love not to make a baby and i promise you will be prego before you know it!

good luck

A. mom of 5 yr old twins and a 15month old

it works i promise!

Hello M., I hope all is well with you, I know you have alot of responds but I thought I would share my story with you. I have been married for 11 years now in which the first 4 my husband and I tried to conceive, hoping and praying each month my cycle would show up late. but it would come and We would try again. It seemed as if all my friends and everyone around me was getting p.g. I kept thinking what the hell am I doing wrong. We all say and know to relax, but it is easier said than done, when you want something so bad. After trying for so long we decided to check with the Dr. My husband got tested all was good there. a week before all my testing was scheduled I found out I was p.g. which months later ended in a miscarriage/ worst feeling ever, trying so long, praying so hard and to end up like this. well after my DNC two months later I found out I was p.g. again 9 months later i had my first son. and than 14 months after that my second son. How can this be I tried for so long and now I have 2 boys under the age of 2. I really wanted a baby girl so years later, i did alot of research online and with my dr. to learn my body and ovulation. I became a pro as to know when I ovulate, the key. I followed the method to chose your sex, and my baby GIRL is now 16 months. do your research, know your body, and believe that God will bless you with your hearts desire. Also take your prenatals now, my Dr. said that helps too. Sorry so long but I just wanted to share this with you. and let you know your not alone.