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I had a simular situation when I was going through my divorce. I spoke with my lawyer and he got us in court in just a few days for the judge to hear what was going on. The judge then ordered for there to be no other person, other then relatives, present when either of us had the child. It worked out well for my son. You should definately let your lawyer know what's going on. I'm sure he or she can give you some advice on where to take this if the father doesn't see the problem in what he's doing. Good luck to you!