L.N.
I understand exactly what she is going through. I go through the same problem with myself and my 3 kids. The best thing that I have done and it has worked for me is to put corn starch (NOT THE BABY POWDER WITH CORN STARCH) Use the one that you buy from the supermarket, the one that you cook with. But the best thing to do is to keep the area dry and cool. If it's in the diaper area before applying the corn starch apply a very light coat of A&D ointment and then dust the corn starch on the affected area. The worst thing to do is wash the area with soap and water. If at all possible try not to use soap to wash the area. Use a cool wash cloth. After that you should be seeing a slight improvelent. I hope this helps.