I can SO relate to that. I didn't even get a card. We had to go to the store to buy his mom a card, and I thought he would have gotten one for me, but he didn't. I thought about mentioning he what about my card, but I figured it wasn't worth it. I figured it's a guy thing and just leave it at that. I know as my kids get a bit older they will so something, and push him into doing something as well for me. But I will say for my b-day i didn't get anything either. Its just who he is, and as much as i don't like it at all. I also understand that is him, and he won't change.
I didn't even get to sleep in at all. I was up at 6 with our daughter and his son, and he slept in for several more hours. I think to my husband it really was jsut another sunday. he knew it was mother's day as we did things with his mom and grandma.
next year make a list of what you want and leave it on the fridge and write in HUGE letters, so he sees it everyday.