L.B.
You probably are not over reacting, you are only human. Yes we carry all that great stuff from high school with us for a long time. I too was picked on and teased in school and it carried over with me into college. I have a reading disability and reading out loud to this day give me nerves so bad that I have borderline panic attacks. Remember too that your experience in school was extremely freightening, I mean the counselor had to call the police to end it. Thats tough to deal with when you are an adult, let alone being only a teenager. I advice to talk to the guy first and tell him he is making your uncomfortable, sometimes confronting them impowers us to do greater things. If he doesnt listen, then go to the teacher or even the counsilor there in the college. He should be more grown up then a high schooler (though sometimes I wonder about all men lol) but dont be afraid to rat him out, after all HE is the one doing this and being very immature. Good Luck!! Be Strong, if not for your child, then for yourself, because you are a wonderful person.