R.M.
Hello S.,
I have been through the CPS system and in the end was blessed with you amazing daughters. I can tell you things might and probably wont go the way you are taught in class.
Krissy has great information in regard to keeping a copy of EVERYTHING. They will lose it. When you resend something make another copy to send to them and have notes on EVERYTHING. I made notes on the copies and if I had to resend they had those extra comments too. like dates on went sent, or resent in papers. Keep calling your caseworker, if you wait for them to call it will be a very slow process. I know bugging them can be hard on you, but they will take care of you so they can finish your request faster. We had the Lord on our side and I know He made a big job happen sooner than should have.
In regards to baggage, sure they all have it because they were in a system for one reason and the system is no way perfect. Ours took awhile to trust and know they are no leaving us, but not really bad at all.
Any other I would talk to you more privately. You may email at ____@____.com of wish and may God provide His desires for you and your family.