Thank you M.. How sweet and I appreciate the comments on the other responses as well.
We are ok except my daughter is sick. So we are not going to dinner with her bf's family because she's running a fever. She is on meds now and hopefully will be ok for exams next week.
I'm planning to stop by a local restaurant on my way to her condo and pick up traditional Thanksgiving food.
I made her favorite soup, took it to her yesterday and she's almost out so I'm taking ingredients and will make a new batch for her while at her place.
I'm in withdrawal from not cooking all day today so making soup will help me too!
I think under the circumstances we are doing ok. At times I feel as though everything is falling apart but that is normal according to my grief support group. We are having to adjust to a new normal for us which is a painful process. My husband was our rock and he took care of us well. We miss him dearly.
I'm still not sleeping well and can't eat, I have to force food and same for daughter. I know our immune systems are down right now.
I truly appreciate the support I have received from many of you on this site. It means a lot to me.
Happy Thanksgiving to you all!!