Well, A., you could get a good watch dog! Seriously! If neither of your family members are allergic, a dog is a good alternative to an expensive alarm system. We have two! Not that we got them for that purpose only, but, it turns out, they bark if someone is at the door or on our porch. And usually, if a would be intruder hears a bark from a big dog (Not a little chihuahua!), they are deterred. Our dogs are Weimaraners...docile family pets, great with the kids, and almost non-shedding short hairs! That part, i love. We also have a sign posted in our yard, close to the house, from ADT security systems. It implies that we have an alarm system, but we do not! Sometimes, just simple measures like that can scare away potential bad people. Also, i think your fears will subside a bit once you become accustomed to your new neighborhood and have been there a little while longer. Break-ins occur much less than the TV shows lead you to believe! :) I too love to watch Forensic Files and CSI, Without A Trace, etc. etc. But, i'm comfortable with my neighbors and neighborhood, so i don't have the same fears that you do. I have 3 kids, soon to be four, and my husband travels for a living, so he is gone ALOT...and it's just me and the kids alone for days to weeks on end! Don't feel bad. My youngest is 3, oldest is 14, due to deliver #4 in July! I hope you get the peace of mind you needed from all the advice you get from us Mommies on this forum!!! ;) Good luck!