R.S.
Two products that I LOVE....
1. Kinky-Curly Knot Today and Curling Custard (for clarity, these are 2 separate products made by the same company). In one word, a miracle. Leaves my kiddy's hair soft for the whole day. It's all natural, so a little hard to find...found mine at Whole Foods and of course you can go online.
2. Hair One Hair Cleanser and Conditioner for Dry Hair - the olive oil type (there's 4 types of this product, and also despite the name it's actually a 2-in-1 product). It cleanses the hair without stripping too much of the natural oils, and it's also a conditioner, so you can skip this step if you are short on time. It is a cleanser, not a formal shampoo, so be warned - it does not really lather a lot, but you'll be surprised how it still manages to leave the hair clean in the end. I found it at Sally's. I use it on my own hair as well. Love this product.