C.A.
A marriage isn't going to work unless by luck if you don't put God in it first of all. Have you both seen the movie fireproof? Watch it-it might change the way you BOTH see each other. I have been here, down this exact same road and only a few months ago. I threatened divorce time and time again and was going through the process of lining my ducks up in a row and didn't bother to hide it either. When he saw the proof such as e-mails from places I was looking to move to, to going to see a lawyer he finally woke up and realized what he was about to lose. I'm not saying things are perfect but girl you have a history with this man and you have his children. Someone has to bite the bullet and change both ends have to come together. Pride is a hard thing to swallow -especially for men! I'm not saying to stay and work things out but can you honestly sit back and say you have exhausted all measures to save this marriage? If you can -then great you can walk away without ever questioning it. Go and get the book The love dare which is inspired by the movie Fireproof.....I am living proof of what kind of changes God can make in your marriage....lke I said its not perfect but at least we are trying. We too have a history been married for 13 years together for 15. That is very difficult to just throw away when you really think about it. You fell in love and married him for a reason-try to get back to that if you can. Sometimes our true feelings get buried so much through all the resentment, bitterness, and anger. Don't you owe it to your children to try one last thing? Marriage is a partnership-you don't EVER leave your partner behind-never.