M.C.
A few of my mom's coworkers threw her a small/very informal Grandma shower before my son was born. He is also her first grandchild and they were so nice to give her an hour to celebrate becoming a first time grandma. She received a few "grandma" items (mugs, frames, etc) in addition to an outfit and a couple of onesies for the baby. She actually mailed the clothing to me since we live 18 hrs apart. She does not get to see him as much as she would like. It is great if your friend lives closer to her soon to be grandchild. If that is the case, I agree with the previous poster that it would be great for her to have supplies at her house to prevent the mom from having to always tote everything with her.