Hi
Wow, I am really surprised that you did not like her! She is my doc and has been for 15 years. She has done my surgeries and delivered both kids!!!
I have a totally different experience with her- and have referred a lot of people to her. I would talk with her- and tell her you would like to know when the best time of day to schedule appts are so that you feel like you have a lot of time to spend with her, and so you can get questions answered, etc.
I am really sorry you are not having a good experience with her- but I think you should,in every case with ANY doctor - demand what you need from them. This is what you pay them for.
I can tell you that - I ended up having an emergency c section and she was INCREDIBLY professional, caring and I had a few issues in both pregnancies and I credit her for them making it past the 16th week. She is INCReDIBLY smart. I hope you give her another chance, but let her or her nurse know that you are feeling vulnerable and would like a bit more time with her. ANd bring a list of questions. :)