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You could take your daughter to one of those paint your own pottery places. My hubby took my son to one of those places and my son, about the same age as your daughter at the time, painted a big mug for me. They fire it after the paint job and you go pick it up about a week later. It was some great daddy/son time and I got a great mug for Mother's day. Needless to say, it is my favorite mug. The also have other things there to paint like plates, piggy banks, figures, bowls etc. Good luck and not to worry, he will love whatever you and your daughter choose to do.