C.C.
I totally understand that you want to make sure your child has the best school and every opportunity. You are a good advocate for your child.
I enrolled my child in a prestigious daycare where she excelled more than we could have dreamed. When we went to sign her up for the K program, we were told it was going to be hard on my child as she was not reading and half the kids were. The teacher told us within 4 weeks they would be doing 1st grade reading and my child would be one struggling.
I was offended and not about to let them keep my daughter from the best K program in town. She struggled all year, her confidence shrunk, and she had a bad experience(as did half the class who also could not read).
All the parents of the struggling kids all agree we should have put our kids in regular K where they would have been challenged and successful, not over their heads. Plus, the teacher did not like the kids who could not keep up.
I taught at a private school that truly allowed anyone to attend. This included kids expelled for assaulting teachers, children with serious behavior problems, and children who had IEPs from other schools.
Eventually all the kids with IEPs left. Why? Their needs were not and could not be met at this school. The teachers did not have the training or any desire to get trained. The one girl in my class actually regressed in her social and academic skills. I was very dedicated and gave up any breaks to work one on one with her. I talked with her parent, social worker, special education teacher from the previous year, and her therapist. I did every thing they said.
Still, it was not in her best interest to attend this school.
I told the mom before she enrolled that her current school was superior to ours at meeting her child's needs. Like me, she wanted "the best" school for her child. I believe the girl lasted 6 months before the specialists convinced her mom to return her.
Can you call the district from a payphone and inquire about the particulars?
I believe if you do try the charter school and it does not work out, you can easily transfer out. Transferring in seems to be near impossible.