H.H.
Dude, I'd put my effort in to loosing the lbs. I gained a good 15 after marriage. It made me very unhappy and no amount of new clothes or styles made it feel better. I realized that I couldn't adopt my husbands eating style and be happy with my figure. I put the kibosh on quick Costco pizza lunches, huge dinners and no exercise. He was bummed when I put my foot down and started cooking lighter and nixing his fast food requests, but my confidence in getting my figure back made up for it.