Ok so my husbands cousin is currently dating this boy(well a year now) who we had a altercation with a few months before they started dating. The altercation was that fact that he was trying to date my 14 yr old cousin (he was 20) and then she ran off with him we ended up finding her the nite she ran off with him because they got split up because my uncle found them and they split up she ran one way and he ran another well we ended up having to call the police and everything long story short we found her. Well to my husband and my surprise he is now dating his cousin and one nite my cousin (the one from above) came to visit and my husbands cousin started posting thing on fb about her(my cousin) so my cousin posted to her i dont want your man. Well the boy sent my cousin a comment saying he was going to go a killing spree and shoot her family with his m4 ( he is in the army now) and alot more threating messages well we printed them and took them to my husbands cousin father and said that he is not be around us at all because of the threating he did well the boy sent us message saying he was sorry blah blah well he stills rubs me the wrong way. well am i wrong about not wanting him around and should i take the comments he posted to police because my husbands cousin lives next door and i am scared she will have him there and i am just really worried about it. Any advice would be great!!!!
I would go to his command or military police about this. I think it's time that everyone started taking death threats seriously.
a 20 year old wanting to date a 14 yo???? That in itself deserves a paper trail with the law. The threats added to that, and I don't blame you for your concern. I believe threats are against the Army Code of Ethics, as well as against normal law. Start a paper trail now so that you don't have the Today Show asking you why you didn't do anything when the red flags went up. Good luck and stay safe.
Report it to the police and to his commanding officer. They don't need a hothead like this running around unchecked.
Wow, your post was hard to read. Take a moment and take a breathe and please use punctuation. LOL
Your concerns are very valid!!!!
The thing that struck me the most was the comment about his being military and threatening on FB that he was going to go on a shooting rampage. I would print that out and give a copy to his Commanding Officer. If he is dating underage girls and threatening people his CO needs to know about this - it is a behavior code.
In the meantime, I would just try my hardest to stay clear of him. He does really sound like trouble.
Take the printouts to the police and the CO. And it since the current girlfriend lives next door, it might be a good idea to get a restraining order against the boyfriend, that way if he does show up at her house, he'll need to stay away from yours or he can be arrested.
Take the printouts to the cops. You can't do any harm by giving it to them to at the very least make them aware. Who knows, maybe this person has a record? Keep your distance and try not to engage with him at all.
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I agree with what these women have said ~ Leslie too (take a deep breath)! If you DON'T report, can you imagine how you'd feel if he did go on a shooting spree ~ even if the spree wasn't on your family? If you report everything to authorities you can at least ease your mind a bit that you did what you could. After you report & get a restraining order, I'd keep gathering evidence ~ if threats continue, etc. & keep turning it in to authorities. I'd also keep a copy of everything. Good luck!
20 trying to date a minor and they were sneaky about it - that's a problem. Then the fact that your family confronted him about it and got the police involved. He then chose another member of your family to date and threaten to wipe out your family. I can't believe you are asking about being wrong to have him around...of course not. He sounds like trouble even if he didn't threaten. Do what the other ladies suggest, keep a close eye on this and if you are this uncomfortable, report it to the cops again. He is angry at the first incident and he is living too close for comfort. I would be scared too!
Yes, report it that way they can follow-up with him if he threatens violence again. Also, there will be a paper trail of sorts just in case he does harm someone-at least the police were notified of his behavior.
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This sounds like a VERY serious situation. I agree with the other mom's who said take what you printed out to the police and his commanding officer. If you do not know who his CO is, take it to a local Army Recruiting office and see if they will tell you. Make sure you have his full name and address (where he lived before the Army should be good). Also, if you don't get much response from the police contact the local FBI office. You can look them up on the computer.
Best of luck and take it seriously!
Report thi to his CO. He spounds dangerous and this will likely happen if not to your family, another.
Good Luck
wow that IS drama! I would take any threats to the police, and stay out of the rest.
His CO will also not like that he's out looking for minors to date! He has a double demerit going against him with all this! He might be made to stay on base/in quarters - but that'll be his problem brought on by his actions!
