J.C.
I am in my late 40'sand have been coloring my own hair for aobut 3 yrs. My hairdresser in another state b4 we moved to CA told me to start with Clairol's Natural Insticts 1st because it is a semi-permanent color and is not as harsh on your hair like permanent color is. It also has minimal odor which I like. My hair is fine but I have lots of it and I was graying at the temples and in front. She told me to select a color as close to my natural color as I could or go just 1 shade darker for best results. I color my hair at home about every 5 wks and the dying process takes only 10 minutes and then another 5 minutes to condition which comes with the pkg. One box is about $6-$9 depending on if I can get it on sale. I don't do highlights but would consider trying it by recruiting a friend to help. It is quite simple and there is not reason you can't do it own your own. My hairdresser here is in a charges $65 to color , w/ highlights adds about $20-$25. Friends who go to fancy salons here pay about $120-$145 here for both -Yikes. My hair stylist told me recently that their hair coloring services have dropped dramatically the last yr with many woman cutting bk and doing their own.Personally I would rather spend more on a good cut and do the coloring myself. Don't be afraid, you can do it Mom.