Dreams - Tampa,FL

Updated on January 07, 2012
N.P. asks from Tampa, FL
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ok i dont know if it was from haveing a few drinks last night , i wasent drunk or any thing but this morning i woke up crying .
i dremed that my room mate was telling my husband what to do and my husband ended up giveing his car to him and the van selling that. the thing is. i bought this blue mustang for him he is fourty five and its his toy i know he will neve sell it from under me .

the dream was scaryer than it seems ( cars ) right
will my room mate thinks he is in charge when myy man goes for a couple hours to cemo and thinks i have no say in my house i tell him somethuing a and he just shrugs off in to the room
his pay to work here and live at my house iss to babbysitt thats all nomoney nothing but my man never asked me they just aggreed to it
sorry for the weard post and it being do long
thank u

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

Nicole:

It was a dream. You are under a lot of stress with your husband (boyfriend from your last post) having cancer. This is just your body's way of getting the frustration and "stuff" out.

If your roommate **Thinks** he's in charge when your husband is in chemo. You better stand your ground and put him in his place. If your room mate babysits - do you trust him? if not - boot him out.

If you tell him something and he shrugs it off? You MUST stand your ground. if you walk around with hunched shoulders instead of a straight back and let people walk all over you - it won't change. If you don't start standing up for yourself, no one will do it for you.

This is not a weird post. It would help if you used the spell checker - it would make it easier to read. But that's not really here nor there.

If this is YOUR home and he is a paying room mate - then what YOU say goes. If he can't handle that - kick his butt to the curb and get a new roommate.

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R.K.

answers from Appleton on

A car is a vehicle -- used to go places. In a dream when someone gives away or sells your car it is a message that you feel powerless to 'go anywhere'. This could be emotional changes or feeling stuck emotionally or that fact that this roommate does not respect you. Also, you feel overpowered by a 3rd party in your own home.

Time to kick out the roommate.

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D.B.

answers from Charlotte on

Do you have family around to help? If you can possibly change your circumstances to have someone else babysit your kids and not have this roommate in your life, it would be so much better.

It is hard enough that your boyfriend is sick. To have a roommate treat you with disregard and disrespect is terribly stressful and more than you should have live with.

I hope you can get rid of this guy.

Hugs to you,
Dawn

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R.J.

answers from Seattle on

It's not the dream that's scary... it's the reality.

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S.K.

answers from Los Angeles on

Hi there! Some wonderful insight shared already. I can only imagine how scary it would be for your man to be going through chemo. I am sorry. The dream is a reminder of our anxiety and feeling out of control. Good for you in reaching out. You need support through this difficult time. S.
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