C.O.
Nicole:
It was a dream. You are under a lot of stress with your husband (boyfriend from your last post) having cancer. This is just your body's way of getting the frustration and "stuff" out.
If your roommate **Thinks** he's in charge when your husband is in chemo. You better stand your ground and put him in his place. If your room mate babysits - do you trust him? if not - boot him out.
If you tell him something and he shrugs it off? You MUST stand your ground. if you walk around with hunched shoulders instead of a straight back and let people walk all over you - it won't change. If you don't start standing up for yourself, no one will do it for you.
This is not a weird post. It would help if you used the spell checker - it would make it easier to read. But that's not really here nor there.
If this is YOUR home and he is a paying room mate - then what YOU say goes. If he can't handle that - kick his butt to the curb and get a new roommate.