How Do I Not Get Turned down Tonight? Ideas? Spin off Last Question=)

No talking. J. do.
I'm betting if you start doing things to him without him knowing ahead of time what's 'goin on' this evening, he won't tell you to stop.

My husband J. suggested to start without him.... He'll join in.

In your prior post you said he is stressed out this week. Since you have "tried" two days in a row and got turned down, if it were M. I would give him some time (a couple days) and THEN try some of these tips. I would hate to see a post from you tomorrow being even more disappointed because he feels pressure from you and he's too stressed out to perform up to your expectations. Good luck!!!

If I put on a thong my husband knows it is ON.
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Send him hot text messages throughout the day. Tell him EXACTLY what he's in for. Then butter him up with dinner...wear a dress while you're serving and be sure you're wearing some good stuff underneath.

Then...serve dessert. With you as the plate. NOM NOM NOM!!

Have fun! I'm so jealous!

ETA: It's all about anticipation. Drag it out until he practically attacks you.

For whatever reason, off the wall stuff is a lot of fun too...I'm dating a guy who loves when I talk dirty to him in a French accent while I'm cooking dinner in a pretty dress. I know very little French, but it's still a lot of fun. We both laugh...and get worked up.

Find a way to make it fun and sexy.

If you told him no, because you had a lot on your mind and then he was still trying to hump you, wouldn't you be pissed that he was being so insensitive? I would create a safe environment for him to open up and talk. Soft music, after a couple glasses of wine ask questions to get him talking. Once he's talked it out, he should be much more relaxed and ready. Or if it's J. talking tonight, that's ok too. Then use all these techniques, sexting and what not tomorrow. Once he's been heard, he may feel more frisky.

i've learned lingerie goes a long way. not one ex turned M. down when i would wear heels, a sexy push-up bra and matching panties. i would also put extra make-up on- not totally slutty but sorta close.

i don't know how detailed i can get but dropping to your knees usually works too. lol.

the knee high boots would drive my guy crazy!!

sounds like you're on the right path. i hope it works out exactly as it should ;)

Dirty texting through the day always works for M. :)

Builds the anticipation and gets him in that frame of mind all day....he will be more than ready once you have a minute alone

Attack him like a cheetah! RAWR!

Act like you don't want it ~ seems to work that way in my house! If I have comfy jammies, a blanket and a book it seems to send some signal to my husband that what I really need is sex :)

I tend to take a couple of naughty pics and send them along with a naughty text.

Works like a charm!

hmmm, I am all for the dirty texting, my husband loves that and dirty pics! There are so many things you can do. What time is he coming over? Maybe you could be in the kitchen cooking in some sexy heels, and a pair of boy shorts undies (my husband loves those too). This is so much fun, I hope you have a great night!!

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hmmm, I am all for the dirty texting, my husband loves that and dirty pics! There are so many things you can do. What time is he coming over? Maybe you could be in the kitchen cooking in some sexy heels, and a pair of boy shorts undies (my husband loves those too). This is so much fun, I hope you have a great night!!

I J. had to read the question and answers. Ladies you are all too funny! I think it is a full moon tonight or something. Men are simple that sometimes we all over think things. If we take charge they follow, dirty texts & pics are great thru out the day. Walking around the house in a tie and box panties.
Relax and have a great time in what ever you decide to do to him. Jump in the shower with him. Tons of little things can be done. Have fun!