S.H.
Ask your Doctor, but her ears seem to be self-cleaning.
as you know, it is usually NOT recommended to clean babies/children's ears with q-tips... it just pushes the ear wax further in, compacting it.
Here's a link about it:
http://www.medicinenet.com/ear_wax/article.htm
Just clean her OUTER ear.
When ears have wax balls built up, the ear will often push it out (no I don't know how they do this), but then you feel a "tickle" and when you reach to feel your ear, a wax ball is deposited there. Voila! (okay I know this because this very same thing happens to me. My Hubby thinks it's funny. My Doctor says my ears are 'efficient.') Ha, ha.
Yes, ear wax is molasses colored.
I say it's normal.
But check with your Doctor in case, since this is your young child.
take care,
Susan