Where did it go? Just got back from our weekly park playdate, log on to check to see the other replies and it is gone.
Did it get ugly? I can't imagine why it'd be pulled.
I think the only ugliness came from the poster. He SWH was pretty nasty. People all said the same thing, and I don't think anyone was mean about it.
With that said, I still don't see why it should have been pulled.
The original poster started flaming in her SWH.
It's probably as good a way to get a question deleted as blanking out the question.
She was on a pretty good self righteous roll there and I was about to bet 50 cents she'd be posting a flouncing message next when it got deleted.
Could be that she was pretty nasty to Jo in her SWH, maybe.
The original poster's SWH started to get pretty nasty. None of the folks who responded (I didn't think--and I followed it for about 40 some odd responses, if I remember correctly) were nasty or rude. But none of them agreed with the original poster that I saw, either.
Several called her out on judging. It seems she didn't care for that.
I went back later on to see who had sent me a flower, and the whole thing was pulled, so a blank flower, lol. Wasn't sure... so checked and ALL the previous flowers were gone also, that's when I realized that question had been pulled.
One commenter even went so far as to copy and paste the original post and her SWH comments, so that if SHE deleted it, it would still be there. But I guess the "mamapedia masters" felt differently, and pulled the whole thing.
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I figured she reported herself and had it pulled since she didn't seem to like the responses and was very hostile towards one particular responder.
I can honestly say after years of being on this site, I have never been so offended by a question. Granted, I took it personally because I did deal with a very similar set of circumstances and this poster made me feel judged. I am glad in a way that it was pulled because anyone who is forced to deal with those types of decisions should not be subjected to the utter ignorance and judgements from someone who simply does not have an ounce of empathy towards even a so called "friend".
Not sure, but her SWH was pretty targetted at one person and very nasty. The responders were actually pretty respectful and focused on the question.
My guess is that when you have that number of "responses" it triggers the moderators to look at the posting. I just got back from a meeting and went to check too!
I just looked for also. Oh well, sometimes the truth hurts. She was not nice.
Thanks for asking...I was wondering the same thing. Putting your child in an institution, late term abortions, aborting a disabled fetus, ect are very sensitive and personal topics. Probably got really heated.
