T.F.
My husband and I are going on 20 yrs this Dec. We have a wide open line of communication where anything goes.
We go out a lot, and I am the one that gets the most attention. I love the attention, he knows it, he has no issue with it because he knows where I will be at bedtime.
Some mamas might get mad at me here but it makes him glad when I am getting the attention because I have worked so hard to keep my 47 yr old body looking like 35 or less. Again, I love the attention but it is also motivation for me to keep up the good work. I'm telling you...there is nothing like it when a hot 20 something hits on me. Hubby loves it when we get home after that happens :)
We go home after the evening is done and enjoy it.
My husband is not a troll and he does get plenty of attention. I know when it comes time for bed, we will both be in the same place.
I commend you on the full honesty policy. It has worked well for us.