This might sound a little weird, but for my first daughter's birthday, I was in your situation, no friend's with babies. We had a good ole fashion party. I served PF Chang wings, blue margaritas, lots of delish finger foods and instead of cake, we had Cheesecake factory cheesecake. My daughter had her own cake as well (I made her a cake that looked like the caterpillar from Baby Einstein videos out of cupcakes) and we had the party indoor/outdoor. She ate her cake outdoors so I could easily clean up and hose off her high chair afterwards. The pictures turned out wonderful, everyone had a great time and we had a wonderful turnout, around 40 adults, some of whom had older children. Needless to say, you don't have to have a child's birthday party yet with the bounce houses and such, your daughter won't enjoy it yet anyway. You will have many years of bounce house parties. Believe me. I hope this helps a little. Enjoy and Happy 1st to your precious little one.