My daughter was born May 31st the weekend AFTER MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND! All our family lives out of town and they always have plans the weekend before...so we did her first birthday at the lake where they live. I just ordered birtday supplies from Celebrate Express (birthday in a box) and everyone was able to enjoy the day at the lake.
This year I am doing something different...we are doing a Gymboree Birthday Party. It is costly but considering what we were going to do in our home it is about the same. As a member $250 for non members $275. They provide and hour and a half of play and an instructor to make the day fun. They provide decorations, tshirt for the birthday child, plates/napkins/forks, invites for 20 kids and bags for goodies. If you want them to fill the bags it is extra. You can choose from several themes...we are doing Princess.
Happy Birtday!