Daughter Won't Sleep Through Night, She Will Be 3 in January

Updated on November 17, 2008
S.R. asks from Brandon, FL
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My daughter has this habit of when she wakes up at various times of the night she calls out for me. We have let her try to cry it out. Believe me she can last way longer than we can. Either she is very strong willed or we are just wimping out. At the moment, I just want her to be quiet so I can get back to sleep but really I want her to not wake up at all or put her self back to sleep without crying out. It is easily solved by a simple pat on the back and to tell her go back to sleep but I have to do this. Daddy is not acceptable to her, he also tends to be very gruff...from being woke up at an odd hour of the night, understandably. You can tell she is having a dream sometimes. We've tried a snack right before bed thinking she might be hungry. We've tried yelling from our bedroom, her room is right next to ours, we know she hears us, but she requires me to come in there. It only happens every couple of nights. Luckily, I am home during the day but I hope to return to work very soon and I'll have school soon, I can't be falling asleep in class. Any suggestions.

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K.J.

answers from Tampa on

Does your daughter take naps? What does she eat before she goes to bed? Does she sleep in her own room?

These area some issues that I was asked about when my son was not sleeping well. I took my son to the doctor because I needed to find out what was going on. I AM VERY GLAD THAT I DID.
I found he had a sleeping disorder caused by his enlarged tonsils and adnoids. We had them removed. He sleeps better now.

He has always had to have music playing in his room when he sleeps. It drowns out noise. May you can try that.

I hope this all helps.
Take Care,
K. J.

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B.S.

answers from Fort Myers on

Hi S. R. My suggestion would be not to give her a snack before bedtime. If you want to give her anything give her a warm glass of milk. We all have dreams every night but most times we don't remember them. If she remembers her dreams talk them out with her and make her feel comfortable with what she dreamt. The ones that stay with us are typically ones that were related to something that stimulated her mind within the day. Watch carefully the last few shows she watches before bedtime, try reading, storytime helped my kids go to sleep, try rocking her to sleep, music might even help relax her and a night light really helps them feel safe in their rooms. I hope this helps you.
B. S.

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A.G.

answers from Punta Gorda on

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Yu are a lucky one, most moms are in need of help, because they can not get children this age out of there bed in the middle of the night. I would not talk to her in th midlle of the night at all. I would go in there quietly pat her back and go back to bed. I would talk to her before she goes to bed and tell her that you are not going to talk to her in the middle of the night any more. Also when she wakes up in the morning, try talking to her to see what woke her up. They say that people dream about what they are thinking about before they go to bed. If it is nightmares, one of the things that worked for my oldest daughter is music. I would read to her and pray with her before she went to bed, and then I would turn on some music. We compiled songs that she was used to hearing in church and burned it to a CD. You could also try sound tracks to her favortie movie. Music was our life saver.

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K.M.

answers from Tampa on

With my girls I found it was what they had eaten during the day. We established a no sugar rule, and that was really the key for them.
I am also a local chiropractor and having helped moms in my practice- sugar has been an item, as well as not enough protien. This can be a great time to make any changes in your own diet too, because you two are the example. With my girls(they are grown now&3 grandbabies!)I know they wanted whatever I had, that really put my own ethics in on food. I know my husband was grumpier when he ate his favorite cheetos- so I know.
My website is docmccullen.com if there is anything else I can help with. doc

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