D.F.
Mine were 8 and 10 when I introduced them to my now husband. I have to say it was a hard transition. Children have a huge loyalty to parents. I did take it very slow. It took a while for them to warm up to him. He was very understanding with them and was real friendly. Played lots of games, things like that. Had beach days.....we did things that were interactive. They are much older and think the world of him. It did take a while. I did not let him visit my home for a long time. We always met him somewhere. I did not want them to think I was forcing him on them. It took the awkward out of it. I have to say it took about a year of courting the kids before we got engaged and we had been dating about 8 months before that. Good luck!