D.P.
I's J E L O U S Y!!!!! I went through the same with my brother. He was the favorite. He died when he was seven and I have suffered regret all my life for being mean to him. I'm 72 yeard old now and still can't forgive myself.
I'd like to beg all moththers to please try to love each child equally, yes, we have favorites, I found out...but we MUST be aware that most children will suffer to see mom and dad constantly playing and being very affectionate with new baby. New babies are adorable. But not to be aware of the evil-jelousy it causes some of us can really hurt a child that simply cannot reason as an adult and understand all this. If each child feels loved, they will all be buddies forever. That's what I saw in other families. It's not too late Bonnie. All the best, D.