no specific answer re the crying, except check with your doctor....my middle child turned out to be allergic to milk so had to have soy formula....but that was a long time ago (he's 37 now!) ..
my grandson was happier being swaddled snuggly for the first few months.....til he got used to being able to move his arms and legs etc (stop and think about how 'tightly packed' he was before he was born)....
in the end you have to understand that babies just cry sometimes...it's what they do....part of it is how they communicate with or react to the world...it's also instrumental for the development of their lungs etc.....ask yourself is the crying excessive? or it just that i expect him to be quiet all the time?
but the main thing i want to tell you is that you can't spoil a 1 month old baby...holding and cuddling makes them feel secure and loved....banishing them to a crib is abandonment to them....babies who are held and cuddled grow into more emotionally stable kids...
if you question this, just read the reports about the kids in orphanages in eastern europe, where they are seldom even held or even spoken to....
D.