Alright so.... Me and my husband finally decided okay lets go with the flow and not really try to have a baby but just see what happens. So i tracked my ovulation and made sure that the timing was right. My periods are always 28 days never early or late. so my EXPECTED period has passed by a day and ive taken 3 pregnancy tests already and negitive everytime and its driving me crazy. Ive even taken the 5 days before your missed period and NOTHING :( Does anyone know could i still be pregnant or what is going on. All answers appriciated Thank You!
Wait! I thought you said..."Me and my husband have finally decided okay lets go with the flow and not really try to have a baby but just see what happens..."
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This is you not really trying and just seeing what happens?!
You tracked your ovulation.
This isn't going with the flow!
This is Trying To Conceive!
And you're going to make yourself nuts.
On average it takes a couple 6 months of trying in order to achieve a pregnancy.
And being an average, although some will get there sooner, others will get there later.
Relax!
Put the pregnancy tests away and try to have some fun with this.
I'm sorry, but you are saying you have finally decided to go with the flow and not really try to have a baby. And then you are saying you have taken 3 pregnancy tests and want to know what's going on.
You ARE trying to have a baby!
Stop trying to have a baby. Seriously! When you stop stressing about it and start thinking about something else, then you'll have a fighting chance in regards to getting pregnant.
The only thing you should be doing is taking prenatal vitamins.
Dawn
I'm with Theresa!
Is this going with the flow? Lol
If you've had sex without using bc then you "could" be pregnant.
Or you could be 24 hours late.
O. thing is for sure: time will tell!!!
No more tracking
No more testing
No more stressing.
Just have unprotected sex. A lot. Enjoy your husband. Enjoy your kids. Don't drink. And but a Costco sized box of TAMPONS (if you have a year's supply, its almost like getting fertility shots ;).
EVERY time you start counting in your head. Stop yourself and go do something else. Literally. Every. Single. Time. Even if you were writing on the calendar. Come back to it.
Stop. Trying.
If you have another PG test, tomorrow morning collect your very first urine of the day in a cup, and test again. Sometimes in the very early stages of pregnancy the HCG level isn't high enough to be detected (even with the early detection tests). Using the first urine of the day will give you the highest possible concentrated urine, making it more likely to detect the HCG if you are pregnant.
If the test is still negative, wait another week and test again. I just buy dollar store tests--they've always worked for me.
If you're having sex, then yes you could be pregnant.
Wait until your period is at least 7 days late to take a test. If it's negative, wait another week.
People who aren't trying to have a baby don't have this type of behavior. There's no need to track ovulation or do constant pregnancy tests. Just relax and let nature take it's course.
Stressing about your period, whether from worry or anticipation, can actually make it run late. I know, frustrating, right? If it hasn't shown up in a week, redo the prego test. In the meantime, try, try, try to relax.
It's possible that you unconsciously got yourself worked up about maybe getting preggers that your body is just a little mixed up and running late. I'd wait for another week before spending more $$ on tests. I remember spending a small fortune on them when we were "not trying". :) If you're pregnant, you still will be in a week. Also, your pregnancy hormones may just be low right now and be sure to take the test first thing in the a.m., as the levels are higher then. Best of luck!!
Okay I would try to relax a bit
I know that's hard to hear but it's true.
It will happen but you need to take a step back, enjoy our husband & give
it some time!
Best wishes!
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Okay I would try to relax a bit
I know that's hard to hear but it's true.
It will happen but you need to take a step back, enjoy our husband & give
it some time!
Best wishes!
