Co-workers

Next time they do that, look them dead in the eye and do not smile, laugh or anything. Tell them stop, its not funny and I would appreciate if you don't make fun of me. If they continue then you need to tell HR dept. but hopefully by you letting them know that its not funny, they will stop. Its hard to tell without the history, if they are the type to be doing it for fun or if they really have a problem with you. Either way---try not to let it bother you and address it with them first before going to a supervisor. Good luck!

Molly

Speak with your supervisor and let your supervisor know that you're uncomfortable in this environment. S/he can speak with your co-workers and let them know that they need to be more professional at work, including being respectful of co-workers. If these two are being rude to you, imagine how they are with customers! That's something your boss should know about.

You didnt give examples so I am not sure what you are dealing with. Women are a hard group to work with. It takes a lot of maturity and self esteem to get through the "womens world". I wouldnt pay attention to what THEY think. If you are doing your job and doing it well, who cares?

If they are doing it maliciously, then report them or give them a taste of their own medicine. If they are just having fun but you are not, then you have to say something to them. Just let them know that their are hurting your feelings. Hopefully they will listen. Ultimately your reaction to their comments is totally within your control. Do not "rise" to the occasion. Let it roll off. If women smell blood in the water, it will be a frenzy. I have worked with nothing but men for the last ten years just because of this mess. They are a more honest lot about their like and dislike of people. Good luck to you and don't forget to wear your thick skin to work.

Go to your Human Resources office and file a complaint. That is work place harrassment and most places of business do not tolerate this type of behavior. You don't have to deal with any type of harrassment in the work place.

I am sorry that you think this is YOUR problem. Seems they are the
ones that need a reality check. I would google "bullying" and hold your
shoulders back and be proud. I wish for you the very best outcome.

I really don't like working with women!! I much prefer men in the work environment, they are much more honest and fun to be around all day.
If these girls are being mean and say things that are meant to hurt your feelings than they need to be stopped. If you are not comfortable talking to them, take to someone higher up that could put a stop to it. If you can talk to them, then straight up ask them why they are always picking on you. One of them may be a follower and if confronted may just stop.
I am sorry you have to deal with this!!
Good luck and God Bless!!
D.

Seriously are these grown women we are talking about? I would talk to your supervisor about this, this should not be tolerated in the workplace. If you can't go to your supervisor, go to human resources and complain. Regardless of whether they are playing around or not, if you feel offended then it falls under harassment and the anti harassment laws as well as the right to work in a hostile free environment.

I work with mostly women and I am a supervisor, and I do not have to deal with this on a daily basis. This is not normal mature behavior. Sure every now and then we have some highschool drama, but I don't tolerate any of it so my team knows not to bring that to work! Our management staff openly talks about and resolves issues, we don't let the rumor mill take over!

I would tell them something. Are they being rude or just playing around? It might make for a awkward work environment if you have to put up with them all day. Be up front and honest!!!!!

Sometimes confusion works. They won't continue if it isn't fun anymore. Try to figure out what reaction they are looking for and do the opposite. For example, if they are trying to get you to look offended and they make fun of what you say, then agree with them and laugh with them. Or if they are trying to make you mad, look happy. If they are trying to get you angry, be really nice and pay the person a compliment. For example, point out in a very genuine voice, "I really like your outfit or hair today!" Just make a list of all kinds of comments you could make that would throw them off and review the list regularly so you can remember some of your answers.

Also, remember that "Hurt people hurt people." By imagining what horrible things they are probably going through, it takes the focus off your pain and you can feel relief that you don't have their life.

Good luck. Stand tall, put your shoulders back, be confident and smile a lot. Act like they are the nicest people you have ever met. Do everything you can to not be a target.

Are you doing anything that they SHOULD make fun of you for? I don't mean that it's appropriate, but are they trying to laugh WITH you or only at you? Do they have a history of getting rid of people they don't like by doing this, or are you just a funny person? How many others work around you? Do they do this to everyone, or is it just you? How big is your workplace? You need to expound before I can really offer any advice.....