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Well, "Christmas Perspective" means realizing and understanding that EVERYONE is busy trying to see family (all family) at this time of year.
As someone that married into a family where inlaw members had their "pat" holidays all sewn up for years, it has been awesome when they DO realize and understand that my husband now has a completely doubled set of family and obligations, and that we sometimes just can't make it to/for certain things.
Good luck & Merry Christmas!