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Hi T.,
I am also in the difficult process of divorcing. Do you live in Mult Co? I know here we have free mediation to get couples to reach a parenting time agreement. The counselors are great (my ex is angry and cheap, but we were still able to come up with a plan! They really put the emphasis on what is best for the child(ren), not what is best for the parent's ego.) I think they would meet with you to talk about the current arrangements and maybe be of some help. Everything is confidential - it doesn't leave the office. The service is through the Family Court Division. Good Luck!