Ok, I got stuck at the issue concerning your parents & YOUR decision about tying YOUR tubes and YOUR decision to stop at 2 kids that YOU & YOUR husband have to raise. That alone seems like a bigger problem than who to choose to be in the room with you.
My suggestion, give hubby an iPod and some serious earphones. That way, he can hold your hand, look into your eyes, smile, and still give you the support you need and be there for the birth of his child.
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Ok, I got stuck at the issue concerning your parents & YOUR decision about tying YOUR tubes and YOUR decision to stop at 2 kids that YOU & YOUR husband have to raise. That alone seems like a bigger problem than who to choose to be in the room with you.
My suggestion, give hubby an iPod and some serious earphones. That way, he can hold your hand, look into your eyes, smile, and still give you the support you need and be there for the birth of his child.