K.C.
You're looking for "greige", I think. Go on www.houzz.com and do a search on "Benjamin Moore greige" and there should be at least a few pics of what you may be looking for. You can click on info for each pic and a lot of them (but not all) have the exact paint brand and color listed. I recently put Sherwin Williams' MegaGreige on my walls in my finished basement and with the white trim and dark floor it looks spectacular!