Hi M.!
I read all the responses you got, but I think you will find mine the most useful. I totally know what you are going through, and yes, I have tried Bright Spark tablets for my son, and I would recommend them. A lot of mothers told you not to try anything until your child is diagnosed properly, I don't know if you have taken her to a pediatric neurologist yet, but I took my son, and they could not give me any answers because he is only 2, but did prescribe Ritalin, they said they could not diagnose him because he is to young. Meanwhile, I was extremely frustrated, dealing with my son's intense behavior problems day in and day out. It was just like you described, he was completely out of control, and we could not take him out in public at all, he was awful. I felt like I was going to completely loose my mind. It got so bad to the point where I had to call my mom to come stay at our house for a while to help out, because my husband and I had reached our breaking point. His behavior went above and beyond what is considered typical terrible two's. Just by going on my own instincts as a mother, I knew that it was not normal, and that he needed help, and your instincts are probably right as well. Like you, I was not given a formal diagnosis, but I, as his mom, believe that he has ADHD. I know a lot of the mothers said not to give her anything if she has not ben diagnosed, but Bright Spark is an all natural remedy, and cannot hurt her, you have nothing to lose at this point, so I would urge you to give it a try. I cannot speak for Chamomile Calm, because I have never heard of it, but my son has ben on Bright Spark for a month now and I have seen significant improvement. After reading up on it, it said that it can take up to six weeks for the FULL effect, but we started noticing improvement shortly after starting him on it, and it increased gradually. It is a little expensive, but if it really helps your daughter, it is worth it, especially being that it does not have the harmful side effects the prescription drugs can have. My son was on Ritalin for a brief period, two days after I started him on it, my mom told me about this website that she had found, nativeremedies.com, which is probably the same website that you have visited, she told me about Bright Spark, so I logged on to the website and checked it out for myself, and decided to try it, he now takes that instead of Ritalin, and for the first time in a long time, I am enjoying my little boy again!
Hope this helps, let me know if you have any other questions, good luck!