L.L.
If you really want to get her off the bottle at this point, THROW THE BOTTLES ALL IN THE TRASH. If you get rid of them, you won't be able to use them. She will get over it. I know to a lot of mom's that might sound harsh and I will probably get a lot of criticism for thinking that way, but if you feel it is time for her to give up the bottle, put them all in the trash and take them to the curb. In order to break her of that habit, your husband will just have to deal with a little bit of crying. My partner is not patient in any way either, so believe me, I know how it is. I had to deal with a similar thing when I quit nursing my son (now, 4). He went straight from breast to cup and skipped the bottle thing all together, but when I quit nursing him, I did it all at once. He screamed and cried for a couple of days (mostly at night), but after about 2 or 3 days, he soon learned that he would only get a cup of water from me. Quite honestly, it went a lot faster than I thought it would.