Biting - Kansas City,MO

Updated on January 29, 2010
K.S. asks from Kansas City, MO
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My 17 month old is a biter. She has been since she was about 12 month old. She got all of her teeth early & sometimes I wonder if that plays into it. Well she keeps biting the kids at her babysitters, and her older sister all the time... It started on her first day (at 12 months) she bit the babysitters grandson twice! Well she stopped for a while, but has picked it up again; just yesterday she bit the baby (4 month old). That was a first as she is always so gently with the baby. I’m so frustrated and I know her babysitter is getting frustrated. We have tried telling her NO, no biting; putting her in time out ect… but it’s not working. She starts her new day care in a month & it will be in a classroom with 8 other kids, I really want to get her to stop this before starting as I don’t want her to be “that kid”… Any other mama of biters… how did you get them to stop??

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E.F.

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K.,
My friend was just talking to me about this on Sunday. Her first child was a biter, he would bite anything that moved or didn't move, not out of defense or anger, just biting. What a developmental health service worker told her was to give him lots of things he could bite on because he needed extra oral stimulation. (The worker also had a biter and this is what helped her) She kept a bag of pretzels (or what ever is a healthy snack that you child likes) with her at all times and about every five min she would give him a pretzel. And gradually she began to notice when he needed it and the increments got longer and longer.
Hope this is helpful and that you can find a solution that works!
E.

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A.H.

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i was a biter... this may seem crazy.. but my mom put my finger in her mouth.. and bit down easily.. just enough so i knew it hurt.. i never bit again!!! it worked...

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C.S.

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My daughter was a biter, and while it was mostly with one particular child that was also a biter, she did go through the phase of biting her father and I and others. We eventually bit back enough that she felt that it hurt and she started to understand and stopped.

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S.B.

answers from Kansas City on

This might sound mean, but bite her back. Not hard, not in anger, but enough so that she understands it hurts! I did it to my daughter, feeling horrible the whole time, but she hasnt bitten again.

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K.V.

answers from Kansas City on

K.,
I am sorry to hear about your daughter biting. I had two sons that
were biters. And now we have grandhildren and well one of them was a
biter. So we started putting soap on her tongue and it works some of
the time. But then one day I guess our other granddaughter got tired
of her biting her and she bit her back and well she is not biting
anymore. So anyway, my best to you and hope that something will work
and make her stop. Because I know it is hard. I can say I have been
there. K.

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A.K.

answers from Boston on

Give her something she's allowed to bite. Probably too young for pepper sauce! Good luck.

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