Yes, I've used a diaphragm since 2001 when I married my wonderful husband. We had 2 planned children 3 yrs apart and then had a surprise baby conceived during a rare use of a condom. Although we don't plan to have more children because of our advanced age, we opted not to have a sterilization/vasectomy because of the risks for both of us. So, we are back using the diaphragm, this time with Extra Strength Gynoll II spermicide for extra protection. With a rare use of condoms I ALWAYS use the Gynol II spermicide along with it for extra protection (it raises effectiveness rates to 98%.
Every time I go to my OB/GYN and ask to be refitted and for a new prescription, he acts like I'm the only person still using this archaic method. I just smile and nod that "Yes, I'm aware of all the other methods, but prefer this one." Gynol II Spermicide that must be used every time with the diaphragm is hard to find, but many places will special order it. CVS carries it in their stores in AZ.
I like the diaphragm because I avoid all hormonal side effects, I can use it when I need it (not like remember a pill every day), neither my husband nor I can feel it during intimacy (if it's uncomfortable, it's likely too largel) and I can have no worries about causing an abortion should the method fail. Though it takes some planning to use, it has NOT put a damper on sexual intimacy. I've been able to breast feed all 3 children to ages 12-15 months without concerns of hormone exposure or milk production problems. A diaphragm can be fitted as early as 6 weeks after a vaginal birth and earlier after C-Section.
So, there are a few of us out there that prefer the diaphragm...just not that many. Best wishes on your search for a compatible birth control. R., midwife Mom of 3
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