R.G.
I got married at a 'destination' spot on a relatively short notice (6 mos to budget for >2500 is short notice). We knew a lot of people wouldn't be able to make it, but we really wanted to have our wedding there. The only people that were able to make it were my parents one of my six sisters and my brother. I think that your friend is being unreasonable to expect you to pay >$2500 to be able to attend her wedding -- especially with less than 6 months notice! Just have a talk with her and give a GREAT shower like another poster suggested. Good luck with everything!!