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My daughter will be 5 in dec and her biggest prob is listening too ...but most of that behavior is totally unacceptable and would be an immediate pop on the mouth and thats why she NEVER swears or talks back.....in public ill flick her with my finger...it only took a couple of times....as far as listening ill reminder her twice to do what i said then there is a warning of a punishment...like youll be grounded the rest of the day...or dad tells her he'll give her hot sauce....that almost always works but she has gotten it several times...on the other side she gets lot of positive praise when she being good...and not in a condescending baby tone likke she 2...i hate that....i treat her like a you g lady and she acts like one...