C.V.
Hi E.,
I don't know much about the hospital stay for your son. My son had a pretty traumatic hospital stay last year when he was 14 months. When we brought him home he was very clingy to me. It was kind of slow process to bring him back to where he was before. I would give your son a healthy snack before bed so that he goes to sleep full. Hopefully that will help with the middle of the night feeding. I would start making smaller bottles if he does wake up so that eventually you can cut it out. The seperation anxiety will probably get better over time. What I did was I would leave him with my husband to play with for very short amounts of time (I would switch the laundry, go to the restroom, ect). He would cry but because it was such a short amount of time he leaned quickly that when I said, "Mommy will be right back" I meant it. I would slowly extend the time and now at 27 months he gives me hugs and kisses when I leave and off he goes to play. Be patient and it will get better.
Chris