I have a memorial service this afternoon and I can't figure out what to wear. I'm currently in a nice 3/4 length black shirt and a plum colored skirt, that is mid-calf. The service is at an arboretum, do I need to wear a black dress, or can I wear my plum skirt skirt?
So glad I skipped the dress! People were even in jeans!
Wear whatever you like. The dead won't care, and if the living give you grief, invite them to sit down and STFU.
What you're wearing is just fine.
I think the days of all black are gone. I think what you are wearing is just fine.
All black is not required. I wouldn't wear anything super flashy or way too much jewelry, but what you are suggesting sounds just fine. If it's outdoors, then of course dress for the weather and wear shoes or boots that work for the terrain.
I would wear what you have on.
J.,
Is this a celebration of life or is it a solemn memorial??? If a celebration of life - nope you don't need to wear black. If solemn memorial? Sedate - plum would be nice....not overly dark and not overly bright...
I know for my mom she didn't want people sad - there was much about her life to celebrate...and that we did...lots of tears and laughter...great memories shared!!
I'm sorry for your loss! May their memory be eternal!
Sounds like a nice outfit.
What's funny (ironic for your plum) is, I recently went to a service and the color purple was recommended because it was the favorite color of the deceased.
I imagine you're already gone but I'll still put in my 2 cents worth.
A bright plum would draw attention. A muted plum would blend in and be neutral.
A shiny fabric would be too party fun but a matte finish fabric would be fine.
SO it really depends on the fabric and texture and the shade of plum.
I am sorry you have to go through this today, I hope you get to hear wonderful stories that help you remember this person in a fond way.
