R.J.
I TOTALLY stole from my son's preschool teacher.
Having some trouble ___________, today.
- being a good friend
- with pushing boundaries
- etc.
That way, they know what's up, and can ask for details, but it's not an attack. The 'having some trouble' indicates a problem they're working on, and the today confines it to a limited period of time. Both which give the parent tools to know and the understanding that kids are kids and parents are dealing.