J.R.
I agree with Cricket. I used meetup.com because all we had was library days and going to the park. I have found so many fun opportunities for play dates in my area in only 3 weeks of joining groups on that site! There are none really close to our house, but we are willing to drive the 30 minutes. And like cricket said, you can always start your own group if you need to and the moms will find you. We have so many social opportunities now that it's hard to choose which one to go to.