We are adopting a 6yr. old and an 11yr. old into our family of 7 already,(5 children). Has anyone been through this? Is there a major adjustment period? Can I possibly expect it to be smooth sailing with hardly any problems? They will be the youngest siblings in the house.
I don't know how the adoption process goes, but I couldn't resist to thank you for those kids. It is people like you and your husband that make this a better world.
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i know a bit about this. my aunt adopted a 13yr old recently and has had trouble with the new child in the home. when kids grow are growing up they experience some things in life that can be very hurtful to them such as who took care of them. sit down with the child have a deep conversation with them. as well as sit down with your children. make the child feel welcome as much as possible by you and your husband and children. include them in activities. bonding is important between siblings and parents, its what makes the trust happen.
Hi I don't know much about adoption, except it is a wonderful thing your doing. I noticed you live in NE CO. So do I we live in Hudson, Are you near there? I hope every thing goes smoothly. Good wishes for the New Year!
I know I am a little late on the advise track, however I have adopted two children one at the age of 5 and one at the age of 4. I also come from a family that has adopted 17 children. It isnt easy! You will always have your challenges. However if you are as strong as you sound you will make it just fine. Just think of how great you will feel doing what you are doing. Children are a joy no matter how rocky the road can get. Enjoy your blessings. Congratulations!
M.
hi B.
we have adopted 4 children, the adjustment process depends on many things, each child is different. it depends on what the children have been through previously. the fact they are coming in as the youngest will help, we were told in our parent class to adopt in birth order, that way no one loses their place in the family, that can cause issues. we went through a lot of adjustments with our children but they all came from differnet backrounds and different issues and emotions. if you would like to e-m me at ____@____.com , i can give you my phone # if you would like to talk.
the only thing i can say is after all the transitioning is done it is so worth the end resolt. seeing what the children were when the came and who they have become is remarkable.
it is such a great thing to be a part of.
