Hi, L.. We have the Eddie Bauer 3 in 1, which is absolutely fine. It's held up through several washes, is easy to install, take out and re-install. My son likes the cup holders for toys and snacks. It's nice that the pillow and armrests can come on and off. My son is 3 and about 35 pounds, and he's got plenty of room to grow in it. Most importantly, it keeps hims safe.
I only have two reservations:
1. The central bottom clip (the one with the red button on it), even on it's largest setting, is placed rather close to the child. While my husband and I have learned to pull it out a bit in order to clip it, often when a friend or grandparent tries to get him in, they have a terrible time of it, on occasion catching my son's pant leg. If your little girl is big for her age, you may want to try her in it at the store to make sure you can clip her in easily. My son is pretty skinny, so it's always surprised me how tight it's been for him.
2. In order for you to adjust the straps (which you need to do often in the spring, for example, when frequently switching between a big winter coat and a lighter one), you need to make sure the straps are not caught up in the back. If the slack strap (which allows you to make the straps bigger in front) is caught under the seat, you have to take your kid out and rearrange the seat, which is a pain. If you remember to organize the straps behind the seat when you install it, you're fine. This may be a problem for any seat, as they all have loads of straps now (latch, seatbelt, etc), but I've only encountered it with this one. Again, it's the kind of thing that once you learn and remember to do isn't a big deal, but it's worth knowing about up front.
Good luck with the decision!
M.