A.B.
Hi A....boy did you get a lot of responses! I have an inhome day so I can see it from both points of view too. I agree with those that said if you aren't comfortable with your daycare provider you really do need to look for someone else. Thats just a gimmy. You need to feel good about who your baby is with and if you aren't happy your just going to be miserable all day thinking about it. On the other side of it, your daycare provider needs to be able to feed your little one when he is hungry. She spends a majority of his awake time in her care so she probably has a really good idea of what he may or may not need at any given time. Also, when your taking care of more than one child, you need to be able to be flexible and do what works best for you. Also, I know that I have people, my mom or a couple of good friends, that will come and fill in for me if I have a conference at school for one of my kids or something that I have to leave early for. If you trust your provider...it shouldn't be an issue. I would never leave the kids I watch with someone I didn't trust completely. You spend 11hours with these kids everyday, you love them and want them safe and happy too! I try to give my parents notice but they know that if I forget to tell them that their kids are in good hands and the people watching them are familiar with them and know what to do in any situation. I hope that if you do decide to look for another provider you are very upfront with them about what you expect so that they can let you know if it is something they are able to work with. I will always try to respect the parents wishes but If I felt like someone didn't trust my judgement with them...I would be hesitant to keep their kid in my care. Part of me wants to tell you that you are being too picky but I just don't know you personally. Do what feels right to you.