P.R.
M.,
I have been reading your posts and been thinking about you a lot. THere are two places that may be able to help you one is Medina Children's Home that helps moms and their children start a new life. The other is a program called "Parenting Alone". Unfortunately I cannot get you the phone numbers at the moment but they should not be hard to find. I am sure that once you get some of your pressing items taken care of (job, services for your son, financial situation) your ADHD will also feel better because stress does not help at all.
Hope you really can find what you are looking for and I will keep you in my prayers!